Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Burr under my saddle

This little tirade is not directed toward those who are not homeschooling their kids and is not a bash on public schools. It is directed at the NEA. Yep, the NEA. I was just reading their annual meeting report and the synopsis is that they think that children who are homeschooled don't get an adequate education and that only state certified parents should be able to homeschool as long as we pay for it (which we do by the way, every single penny with no tax break at all), teach exactly what we are told to teach (by them of course), take all their silly tests and our children don't participate in extracurricular activities (which if our children are at such a disadvantage, you'd think they would want to "help" them all they could if they really had the kids' best interest at heart) . When I brought Nathan home to be schooled 6 years ago, his reading specialist had a fit (I do believe it had to do with her "program" being messed up but that is a different story). She thought I was doing him a terrible disservice. When I asked her point blank if she knew any homeschoolers, she admitted that she did not. As someone who is trained in the education field, this just drives me bonkers!!! If I were in their classrooms, doing what they told me to do, I would be a professional. But since I am schooling my kids at home instead, I am a fringe parent who is doing my children a disservice. Amazing. I have to go and teach now.

7 comments:

lkyost said...

I wouldn't let it get to you. You know that you are doing the right thing and your kids are better for it. They are getting the individual learning that they would never get in a public school. They say that most homeschoolers are a year or 2 ahead of the public schools anyway.
I've been wanting to tell you that I look foward to going to your site everyday to see what new news or photos you have.

Anonymous said...

Melissa,
For as many parents that I know who homeschool, versus public school kids, I can tell you, there are some who take it very seriously and make their kids WORK! Then again, there are some who hand the book to their kids and say, DO IT and walk away. (Oh don't get me started!)

I find it interesting, more and more how there are more Christian teachers getting into the "system" now. I personally think the "system" needs an OVERHAUL!! Especially for the SN kids!! *which my son, and your coming son are*

Kristen

Lisa said...

Melissa,

I was also told that I was doing our son a horrible disservice by taking him out of special services classes in the public school in fifth grade when we started homeschooling. That was five years ago. Last month we got his testing back from our state (which is required to go to state colleges ... don't get ME started on that!) and he was FAR above state standards in math, science and writing. Do you know what his hightest scores were ... READING!!!!

There were a group of ten kids that were homeschooled that did this testing together, they all did this well. They also all qualified to start all their college classes at the end of 10th grade. This year has been interesting to have a "college" student in our home :)

I continue to pray for your TA and look forward to following your journey to China.

God bless, Lisa C.
fellow AWAA WC Yahoo group

Anonymous said...

I wanted to write another perspective on public school vs home school. Hey Melissa, it's your cousin Donna (also a public school teacher). Thank goodness for the public schools so that ALL children can get the education they so rightly deserve. Not all children are fortunate enough to have loving, devoted parents to make sure they receive an excellent education. That is where the public schools come in. OK, time to get off MY soapbox! Love, Donna
ps I also love reading your blog!

BlessedMomof 5 said...

Hey Donna - so glad to see you here! Are all your kids home? I couldn't remember how long they would be away - I would love to hear about their travels :)
Melissa

Hanley Family said...

It is tough for the people in the classroom like the reading specialist you mention. A lot of people have stereotypes against homeschoolers because they never have met any and they themselves couldn't imagine doing it. Add to that the fact that she probably is a member of the NEA and is bombarded with their propaganda and it is no surprise she would think that way.

I wish people could step back and think for themselves...and really contemplate what education is. Or what it is supposed to be. What do they mean by "socialization?" And is school the best place for that? And is the prom really that important?

Carla said...

as a homeschooling mom, that makes me irritated!